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Not a Pastor

31-Mar-07 00:22

Written Tuesday, March 27 

Tonight in a small village in Buriram, about 6 hours northeast of Bangkok, I showed Prang the set of Train and Multiply materials I brought for her.  Train and Multiply is a curriculum for equipping average believers, even new ones, to start and lead small churches.  Prang has been actively talking about Jesus with her neighbors, and doesn't know what to do with them all.  It's too difficult to get everyone to the nearest church.  So I told her she needs to start one right here.

Train and Multiply
is basically a set of 63 booklets, each on a different subject.  The idea is that a coach would normally cover about a lesson a week, depending on the topic that needed to be covered.  For instance, if a question came up about the nature of God, perhaps the lesson explaining the Trinity would be covered that week, and taught by the church leader/trainee at the following meeting.  Since they are simple booklets that can be photocopied, the idea is that very soon that young church leader will soon be training another one.

In Thailand we are partners with the Southern Baptist Bangkok Metro Team.  Southern Baptists aren't too keen on women in ministry leadership, so I hope I don't get in trouble here.  But as the strongest Christian in her village by far, and as someone with a burden for reaching others young and old, Prang is a ministry leader.  I figure that right now, Christians are less than 1% in Thailand.  After we have a few percentage points we can argue about the meaning of I Corinthians 14 and I Timothy 2.   For now, I'm happy for any worker, whatever color or shape.  So I told her, "Learn all this material and you'll be a real pastor."

"I don't want to be a pastor," Prang laughed.  That didn't surprise me.  Prang is not an up-front kind of person.  "That's ok," I told her.  "This isn't about standing in front of a big group and preaching.  It's about reading the Bible together and talking about it.  Why don't you want to be a pastor?"

"Because a pastor doesn't reach many people."

I wasn't sure I heard her right.  

"Because a pastor doesn't reach many people.  He has to stay inside his building and take care of people in the church." 

Hmmm . . . . 

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Errant Fact

31-Mar-07 00:19 Celeste McGee forwarded a message from a friend--here is an excerpt:

"I just went to a children-at-risk conference last weekend....  I found out that half of the sex workers on Bangkok are less than 14 years of age. they just aren't allowed to be taken out of the rooms, so you don't see them out on the streets. the pimps say "for make love only, no massage, stay in room since so young"  Lord bring justice, Lord have mercy... His heart breaks."

This statement is almost certainly not true.  We are not hearing of Thai girls kept under wraps like this.  We don't doubt that it happens, and that fact alone, whether 10 girls or 10,000, is still horrific.  However I think it's important to be avoid overstating the situation.  Perhaps it helps to draw our attention, but can lead us to the wrong target.  Far, far more Thai girls are damaged by domestic sexual abuse and early sexual activity in their own age group than are sold into closed brothels.  That is not at all to say that we shouldn't make every effort possible to rescue and prevent child sex trafficking.  But we need to keep the source of the problem in mind--the brokenness in families and cultures that would lead families to sell their children in the first place.  That is our priority at The Well. Comments (0)

Heading to Buriram

26-Mar-07 15:34

Leaving in a few minutes for Buriram with a small team to hang out with Prang.   Bought her a $50 guitar last night and copied a bunch of church planter training material. 

After the last 10 days, a long bus ride (7 hours) will be a nice break.

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Week in Review

24-Mar-07 06:38 Stuff sometimes happens here faster than we can think.  Some highlights this week:

Spent time with 6 aimless teenagers, age 17-19; jobless, penniless.  One finished only 3rd grade; none has a sense of direction for the future.  We see this commonly here.

Welcomed "Noi", a 13 year-old girl into our home, with Kay as her mentor.  Noi quit school halfway through 7th grade because she said teachers were giving her too much homework.  For the last several months she has been hanging out with friends, including a boyfriend in his 20's.  Thursday Kay took her to the doctor to be treated for an STD.

Had lunch with "Beau", a 22 year-old who has been in the sex industry for several years.  Ae had just come from getting a passport picture taken, and said she was hoping to leave for England in just a few days.  According to our students who brought her, the passport Ae is getting is fake, and as I suspected, she is not in fact going as a tourist but will be working as a prostitute.  We're working on seeing if we can find out enough details about her, especially her fake passport name, to alert the British embassy before she goes there for her visa next week.

Called Prang, our former student now in her home village in Buriram, 6 hours northeast.  She's pretty much on her own, and I apologized for still not getting up there to visit.  Prang told me that since she has become a Christian, 35 adults in her village have as well.  She told me she could lead more to the Lord, but wouldn't know what to do with them all.

Spent several hours with Sandy Wisdom Martin and Gail Hallman, state leaders of the Southern Baptist Women's Missionary Union in Illinois and Pennsylvania, brainstorming and discussing possibilities for the WMU to bring their Christian Women's Job Corp initiative to Thailand.

Met with a couple of Thai women working on starting a school.

Made 2 pickup/dropoff trips to the airport.

Met with the Christian owner of a sewing factory here, explaining The Well and some of our thoughts for business development to provide economic alternatives to prostitution.

Explained Jesus to the cousin of one of our newer members at The Well.  I'm not overly quick to invite Thai people to receive Jesus, but Ae, a 30 year-old college student, seemed to be ready.  I sent him home with a Bible and a VCD, and he agreed to visit our home for "church" on Sunday.

Did a quick outreach at Soi Cowboy.  Talked with Ann and Nok, 2 street freelancers in front of the Robinson's department store, about going out to dinner for Ann's birthday on Monday.

Worked with Jason Bowman on a logo for Narimon, the brand we're developing to market jewelry and clothing accessories in the West.

Got further behind on a whole bunch of other stuff.
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Restart

20-Mar-07 10:01

Ok, after over a year I'm trying again.  This time it will be short posts, not trying to write an essay each time, ok?

Sunday afternoon we had 14 people over to our house for church.  Eight were not Christians.  Great fun.

Four were teenagers.  Two were sisters who make about $4 a day sewing shirts for Nike. One has a child, and to make ends meet, tries to sell herself on the street a couple of times a week.

Looking at Nike's web site, I see that their cheapest men's t-shirt goes for $25.   According to this article, Nike budgeted $476 million for celebrity endorsements in 2006.  

Draw your own conclusion.  Comments (0)

 

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sallipod
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John
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Bangkok Prostition on the Rise
Reply #17 on : Tue January 20, 2009, 20:39:34
As a foreign teacher in Thailand I came here to help children to improve their education in a developing nation but of late I have become increasingly concerned at the massive increase in prostitution especially in the tourist areas of Bangkok. It has clearly been here a long time but recently I have been totally stunned to see the massive increase in the number of girls stretching themselves in desperation to get money by any means possible. I have witnessed thousands upon thousands of women in these areas, especially Nana and the Sukhumvit around the Arab quarter, desperate to survive.
Forget the nonsense about stereotypical crack whore - oh no, these are Tesco girls, salon workers, beauticians, florists, fat girls, older women, short women, tattooed girls, ladyboys; every walk of life, desperate for money for a multitude of reasons. But nearly always the same basic reason - desperate for money and usually not themselves but their family. The price that many young girls pay, especially from Isan, is extremely high; attempting to live out the dream of coming to Bangkok to earn money for a desperate family is just all too familiar. The credit crisis really hits home here at the bottom of the pile-so many poor suffer for gross negligence of governments and big business. The human suffering at the other end has to be seen to be believed.
I find it incredible just to see bars filled to overflowing with women of all ages and less farangs than ever, as many tourists have cancelled flights (although the numbers of Arabs and other non-Anglo Saxon groups seems to be stable). Definitely less money from tourism, even if sex-industry based, increases the need for money for others as many poor lose whatever income they had and inflation continues. The money flow slows and causes a knock on effect for so many others. The result is a deep psychological impact on women.
I reject their claims of "oh it's just a job, or just don't think about it too much". Especially in highly conservative Thai society, these girls must suffer greatly. Yes it MUST be shameful to them when others find out, whilst they attempt to keep everything a secret to everyone else. If you push these girls to speak truthfully, then all the emotion comes out -none of them really want to do this work, they just hope they will get enough to overcome whatever problem they have. But the real problem appears for the long term effects especially in standards of their mental health and social status. Once they get used to the cash for “big” money (big by their standards, real cheap by farang standards) they get locked into a cycle.
Now the answer; well there is no quick fix! A police crack down is definitely not the answer and is open to all forms of corruption in any developing nation. No it has to be a combination of cultural change and governmental initiatives. The reality is until the Thai government manages to stabilize its long term political instability, improves rights and standards for low class workers, increases their leadership to look for visionaries not just bureaucrats, and then looks at improved fiscal policies with long term job improvement schemes; the poor, most of all will suffer. Combined with no real welfare system, it’s fairly obvious where especially desperate women will end up. I therefore applaud the actions of outreach workers who at least aim to assist in the interim and I can only wish them the best as my heart is heavy when I see Thailand going backwards in this area and hope the suffering of these women will truly one day be less.
Jeremy
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Project Rescue
Reply #16 on : Mon May 26, 2008, 08:33:14
Ever heard of Project Rescue? I just heard about it from a friend who went to college with the founders' daughter. Seems very similar to what servantworks is doing!

http://www.projectrescue.com/frontpage.php
Earn
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the latest postcard
Reply #15 on : Tue April 01, 2008, 13:12:41
I'm Thai and support The well a ministry of servant works through my pray, money. I am really appreciated what you are doing for those who have no opportunity in their live and live in the darkness. I am still support your ministries. But one of my concern and it is bothering me a lot is the latest postcard which I just received couple weeks ago. I truely understand what happen in Thailand about women and teenager. Of course they are disrespect to their body, mind, soul and God by exchange it through sex for money. Can you use another word instead of Thailand's sex workers. It's sound harsh and it is hurtful. I understand that you want to wake people up through this postcard but I think there is some way else to do it.
One more thing, in the picture I see young innocent teen. I don't know who they are. They can be one of them who exchange their body with money or may not. But if it is, they already have a poor live and why you make it worse by put their picture openly!! What going to happen when they grow up? We are adult suppose to protect them, aren't we?
Jan
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Concerns
Reply #14 on : Sun March 30, 2008, 13:18:43
Hi

My name is Jan. I'd like to thank God and you all( The Well ministry) for a wonderful work for Thai woman and children who are from dysfunctional families. I've been supporting The Well for the past 2 years, and also had a chance to visit The Well in Bangkok twice.

However, I have a concern. I have received 2 postcards of the Well Ministry. I came to my mails couple weeks ago. The first time I saw the card, I did not feel anything much. But the second time I received the same post card, there is the thought that came to my mind. I saw the picture of a mother with her two beautiful daughters. They are beautiful children. Then I read the card...Thailand sex workers! I know the intention of this postcard is good. However, I think the language is too strong. Although, it is the truth for most cases. I am concerned about these children in the picture. Unfortunately, the children have to suffer from parents' poor choices and decisions. They've already been damaged and wounded. We should try to protect them. I don't think the language is appropriate, especially when there is a picture of children on it. If they can read and understand English, I can't imagine how much damage it can do to them emotinally and psychologically.

Blessings,
Jan
alan
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God of this city...
Reply #13 on : Wed March 12, 2008, 11:32:09
hey buddy,
have you heard the new song, "God of this city"?

see
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d61LamkXfwk&feature=related

for u-tube version of tomlin singing it...the band Bluetree from Ireland was actually in Pattaya not too long ago, and they somehow were invited to perform in a brothel...while they were doing a 2 hr. worship set, they said God gave them this song. it is POWERful!

miss ya dude,
alan
edwin
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awsome comiing
Reply #12 on : Tue March 04, 2008, 20:26:18
im with ya Jessica!
i really wanna be involved! i hate being lazy!!!
jessica
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hopefully coming
Reply #11 on : Tue March 04, 2008, 00:46:56
My name is Jessica Wood my sister and I are in contact with servantworks about coming to bangkok this summer. Thanks for all your hard work and the genuine way you approach people... I lay awake at night thinking about this stuff....i really think God wakes me up so I will pay attention to his prompting for me to do something or say something for those trapped in the sex trade...i want to help and not just so that I can sleep easy..but because there is no other option..and becuase i deeply loves Christ and believe he sets people free....anyways just wanted to show encouragement and introduce myself
Edwin
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Re: jim larson's thoughts
Reply #10 on : Sun January 13, 2008, 13:54:02
for "Win"

you are more than right..... those that follow Christ's really lay themselves low for other people... that is LOVE!

*hugs*
win
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Reply #9 on : Tue January 01, 2008, 03:40:30
i'm da random...n i'm a thai gurl,,n i saw ur friends or sumone who knows u post bout wt u did in thailand..it's gd mannn...


i donno wt to say bt i never heard bout whites do stuff for helping ppl who isn't white b4


most of them jt drop sum shit here destroy enviorment...


anyway keep it
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