jim larson's thoughts

Catching up

When you get behind in blogging it's tough to catch up.  So here are some quick bullet updates:

• Nobody bought me the Lamborghini or gave $1.6 million.  Maybe next year.
  
  
• The Well now has about 45 students in 4 centers.  One center alone has over 20. 
  
  
• We've had some ups and downs with trying to prosecute the rape case mentioned in the last post. The police have been unhelpful--we ended having to investigate the case ourselves.  We believe we have enough evidence to pursue it--we've established where it occurred and that it could have happened within the period of time when the 3 guys claimed they went to fill their pickup up with fuel while our girl was in the back.
  
  
• Prang and Michaela are bustin' out with The Well Center 4 in the Buriram province.  School teachers who used to tell kids not to go to Prang's house because of her Christianity are now friendly.  Local government officials are supportive.  She has been taking free government-sponsored business classes, and is looking into getting a spot on the local school board.
  
  
• Mae, the 14 year-old I have chronicled about some, asked to follow Jesus just before Christmas.  Several of her family members are now at The Well, including our first "ladyboy".  More on that later.  Mae has settled into a responsible teenager and is planning to get back in school full time next term, towards her goal of becoming a doctor.  I bought her a couple of books as an encouragement--she loved it.  I still shudder to think where she might be if our visiting mission team hadn't found her . . .
  
  
• We moved to a quieter neighborhood where our kids can play outside, and where you don't have to turn the TV or stereo up loud to hear over the motorcycles roaring by outside.  Ahh, Bangkok. 
  
  
• We still have 3 students living with us, 13, 16 and 19.  Pear, our adorable 13 year-old, has been through a lot since her dad got out of jail just before Christmas.  Her dreams of a reunited family were quickly dashed, as she began to find out that her dad is actually a very immature, unhealthy man.  It was a bit tense for a while, as Pear only knows how to express her feelings through acting out.  One day she ran away from The Well and we spent about 3 hours hunting for her, but since then has settled down and seems to be coming to terms with things. 
  
  
• Larry Behrens, a lawyer from Vermont, was in to visit last week.  He is looking to move here with his wife and 2 kids in July.  His wife will teach at International Community School, while Larry would like to help somehow with women's issues.  We met with a group of Christian lawyers who suggested a legal clinic, so at this point that's what we're looking at.
  
  
• Sunday night I rode a bike at 3am out to the main street to call a taxi to send Larry to the airport.  On the way back a street dog started chasing me.  I rode faster, but of course the dog kept up and got closer.  I tried to swat at it, and indeed the dog turned and ran off.  However, at the same time I also jerked the handlebar and flipped the bike, hitting the asphalt with my chin.  A half hour later I was getting stitches.  Not pretty, but it could have been worse--no broken teeth, for one.  As an old boss of mine used to say when I spent a summer assembling grain bins, "If you're gonna be dumb, you gotta be tough."  I should have just stopped the bike and turned on the dog.  Oh well.
  
  
• Soon I'll write about the frustrating case of a sweet young woman, another of Mae's relatives, who is selling herself to pay of $8,000 in debt that her mother has accumulated over about 8 years.  

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sallipod
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Reply #18 on : Fri January 29, 2010, 01:48:08

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John
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Bangkok Prostition on the Rise
Reply #17 on : Tue January 20, 2009, 20:39:34

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As a foreign teacher in Thailand I came here to help children to improve their education in a developing nation but of late I have become increasingly concerned at the massive increase in prostitution especially in the tourist areas of Bangkok. It has clearly been here a long time but recently I have been totally stunned to see the massive increase in the number of girls stretching themselves in desperation to get money by any means possible. I have witnessed thousands upon thousands of women in these areas, especially Nana and the Sukhumvit around the Arab quarter, desperate to survive.
Forget the nonsense about stereotypical crack whore - oh no, these are Tesco girls, salon workers, beauticians, florists, fat girls, older women, short women, tattooed girls, ladyboys; every walk of life, desperate for money for a multitude of reasons. But nearly always the same basic reason - desperate for money and usually not themselves but their family. The price that many young girls pay, especially from Isan, is extremely high; attempting to live out the dream of coming to Bangkok to earn money for a desperate family is just all too familiar. The credit crisis really hits home here at the bottom of the pile-so many poor suffer for gross negligence of governments and big business. The human suffering at the other end has to be seen to be believed.
I find it incredible just to see bars filled to overflowing with women of all ages and less farangs than ever, as many tourists have cancelled flights (although the numbers of Arabs and other non-Anglo Saxon groups seems to be stable). Definitely less money from tourism, even if sex-industry based, increases the need for money for others as many poor lose whatever income they had and inflation continues. The money flow slows and causes a knock on effect for so many others. The result is a deep psychological impact on women.
I reject their claims of "oh it's just a job, or just don't think about it too much". Especially in highly conservative Thai society, these girls must suffer greatly. Yes it MUST be shameful to them when others find out, whilst they attempt to keep everything a secret to everyone else. If you push these girls to speak truthfully, then all the emotion comes out -none of them really want to do this work, they just hope they will get enough to overcome whatever problem they have. But the real problem appears for the long term effects especially in standards of their mental health and social status. Once they get used to the cash for “big” money (big by their standards, real cheap by farang standards) they get locked into a cycle.
Now the answer; well there is no quick fix! A police crack down is definitely not the answer and is open to all forms of corruption in any developing nation. No it has to be a combination of cultural change and governmental initiatives. The reality is until the Thai government manages to stabilize its long term political instability, improves rights and standards for low class workers, increases their leadership to look for visionaries not just bureaucrats, and then looks at improved fiscal policies with long term job improvement schemes; the poor, most of all will suffer. Combined with no real welfare system, it’s fairly obvious where especially desperate women will end up. I therefore applaud the actions of outreach workers who at least aim to assist in the interim and I can only wish them the best as my heart is heavy when I see Thailand going backwards in this area and hope the suffering of these women will truly one day be less.

Jeremy
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Project Rescue
Reply #16 on : Mon May 26, 2008, 08:33:14

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Ever heard of Project Rescue? I just heard about it from a friend who went to college with the founders' daughter. Seems very similar to what servantworks is doing!

http://www.projectrescue.com/frontpage.php

Earn
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the latest postcard
Reply #15 on : Tue April 01, 2008, 13:12:41

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I'm Thai and support The well a ministry of servant works through my pray, money. I am really appreciated what you are doing for those who have no opportunity in their live and live in the darkness. I am still support your ministries. But one of my concern and it is bothering me a lot is the latest postcard which I just received couple weeks ago. I truely understand what happen in Thailand about women and teenager. Of course they are disrespect to their body, mind, soul and God by exchange it through sex for money. Can you use another word instead of Thailand's sex workers. It's sound harsh and it is hurtful. I understand that you want to wake people up through this postcard but I think there is some way else to do it.
One more thing, in the picture I see young innocent teen. I don't know who they are. They can be one of them who exchange their body with money or may not. But if it is, they already have a poor live and why you make it worse by put their picture openly!! What going to happen when they grow up? We are adult suppose to protect them, aren't we?

Jan
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Concerns
Reply #14 on : Sun March 30, 2008, 13:18:43

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Hi

My name is Jan. I'd like to thank God and you all( The Well ministry) for a wonderful work for Thai woman and children who are from dysfunctional families. I've been supporting The Well for the past 2 years, and also had a chance to visit The Well in Bangkok twice.

However, I have a concern. I have received 2 postcards of the Well Ministry. I came to my mails couple weeks ago. The first time I saw the card, I did not feel anything much. But the second time I received the same post card, there is the thought that came to my mind. I saw the picture of a mother with her two beautiful daughters. They are beautiful children. Then I read the card...Thailand sex workers! I know the intention of this postcard is good. However, I think the language is too strong. Although, it is the truth for most cases. I am concerned about these children in the picture. Unfortunately, the children have to suffer from parents' poor choices and decisions. They've already been damaged and wounded. We should try to protect them. I don't think the language is appropriate, especially when there is a picture of children on it. If they can read and understand English, I can't imagine how much damage it can do to them emotinally and psychologically.

Blessings,
Jan

alan
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God of this city...
Reply #13 on : Wed March 12, 2008, 11:32:09

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hey buddy,
have you heard the new song, "God of this city"?

see
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d61LamkXfwk&feature=related

for u-tube version of tomlin singing it...the band Bluetree from Ireland was actually in Pattaya not too long ago, and they somehow were invited to perform in a brothel...while they were doing a 2 hr. worship set, they said God gave them this song. it is POWERful!

miss ya dude,
alan

edwin
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awsome comiing
Reply #12 on : Tue March 04, 2008, 20:26:18

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im with ya Jessica!
i really wanna be involved! i hate being lazy!!!

jessica
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hopefully coming
Reply #11 on : Tue March 04, 2008, 00:46:56

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My name is Jessica Wood my sister and I are in contact with servantworks about coming to bangkok this summer. Thanks for all your hard work and the genuine way you approach people... I lay awake at night thinking about this stuff....i really think God wakes me up so I will pay attention to his prompting for me to do something or say something for those trapped in the sex trade...i want to help and not just so that I can sleep easy..but because there is no other option..and becuase i deeply loves Christ and believe he sets people free....anyways just wanted to show encouragement and introduce myself

Edwin
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Re: jim larson's thoughts
Reply #10 on : Sun January 13, 2008, 13:54:02

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for "Win"

you are more than right..... those that follow Christ's really lay themselves low for other people... that is LOVE!

*hugs*

win
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Reply #9 on : Tue January 01, 2008, 03:40:30

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i'm da random...n i'm a thai gurl,,n i saw ur friends or sumone who knows u post bout wt u did in thailand..it's gd mannn...


i donno wt to say bt i never heard bout whites do stuff for helping ppl who isn't white b4


most of them jt drop sum shit here destroy enviorment...


anyway keep it